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If you come as softly as the wind within the trees, you may hear what i hear. see what sorrow sees. If you come lightly as threading dew, i will take you gladly, not ask more of you!!
<简简单单, 普普通通..这就是我>

蝶舞雪漫天

No matter what happens, this valley is full of butterflies, and they are dancing with snow in the sky!!
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May 06

有谁懂了呢?

有些故事不必说给每个人听, 有些情绪是该说给懂的人听. 可是懂的人究竟在哪儿呢?不是每一个故事都跟别人说, 才是一件好事. 因为就算是说了, 别人不一定会理解, 又何必去麻烦别人跟
 
花费自己的时间去说呢? 有些东西还是收在心里比较好, 起码有自己明白自己..可是有些情绪我们是该说出来, 但懂的人不多, 理解自己的人更少.  每个人都想找到一个能够了解自己, 可以
 
分享喜怒哀乐..但茫茫人海中, 能找到的机率会是那几个零点百分比呢? 于是我习惯性地用起伏的背影去挡住自己那颗快要哭泣的心, 不想让人看见自己的脆弱, 所以常常把自己伪装起来.
 
想哭的时候, 总会装得很开心, 很大声地笑, 然后转过身任由脸上面的泪淌下来. 一声不响地让泪掉到打字的键盘上面, 连哽咽都不敢发出声音来. 留给别人的永远是那个起伏的背影..
 
其实很想用简单的言语, 解开超载的心, 可是却怎么也解不开心里的结.  而我渐渐地喜欢上发呆, 坐在图书馆里面靠窗的位子, 眺望着远方..也很喜欢一个人走在校园里面, 微风徐徐地吹过
 
我的脸颊, 飞扬的长发....看到下雨天, 偶尔也会好想跑到外面好好地淋一次, 可是别人总是笑自己傻~ 可是谁知道, 其实我是想换一个心情呢? 我只是想让雨水好好地清洗一下我的阴霾..
 
好想过一些简单的生活, 很想自己的一生都可以那样静静地, 望着外面来来往往地人群,眺望着远方的世界.  可是我知道那是不可能的事情, 除非我可以把所有的事情都抛开, 不再理凡尘
 
俗世的一切, 可这些我能割舍么? 如果可以, 为什么我的心还是会痛会哭看到那样的情景? 为什么我会变成这样的一个傻瓜呢? 为什么就不可以找个肩膀好好地依靠一下呢?
 
好想等到下一个天亮, 我可以回到那个快乐的童年, 好想自己永远都只是一个长不大的小孩..因为在他们的世界里没有像我们大人那样复杂的感情跟事情要处理..
 
 
 
 
March 28

suffering..

suffering from enormous stress a!!!
 
endless testes are coming toward me at the same time, i feel exhausted.
 
meanwhile, i hope that God can bless me, even though i am not a religious.
 
i really want to go there, but too many concerns...
 
plz..plz....if i can't, then i .....
 
no comment on that...sigh..
March 12

The difference between winning and losing

Some of the significant differences between winning and losing are:
 
hanging on, persevering, WINNING;
 
letting go, giving up easily, LOSING;
 
accepting responsibility for your actions, WINNING;
 
always having an excuse for your actions, LOSING;
 
taking the initiative, WINNING;
 
waiting to be told what to do, LOSING;
 
knoing what you want and setting goals to achieve it, WINNING;
 
wishing for things, but taking no action, LOSING;
 
seeing the big picture, and setting your goals accordingly, WINNING;
 
seeing only where you are today, LOSING;
 
ADOPT A WINNING ATTITUDE!
 
                                            --- by Catherine Pulsifer
March 05

Things never go well...

Why things never go well?
once i thought everything is settling down, and the  bad things always happen...what have i done wrong? I have tried my best to make myself and my family happier....but no matter how hard i try, eventually, an unexpected incident can always crush down all my effors easily..
In other people's eyes, we seems are living happily oversea....however, how many people really understand what has happened underneath?
i thought i have became strong enough to bear or face all the challenges in front of me...i hardly cry since i moved to this new place coz i believe that i have to grow up to be a person who can take care of my family; i want them to live better; i want them to have a place to settle down, even a tiny house,  but the facts tell me that i have overestimated my ability...i still couldn't stop those bad things occurr in our lives.......maybe money is the ringleader.......i don't wanna talk about what he did to us......
i just wanna say that one day we will live better than you are..
I wanna tell him this:
PLEASE LOOK AFTER WhaT YOU DID TO OTHERS..COZ ONE DAY YOU WILL PAY IT ALL BACK ....BECAUSE THAT IS WHAT KARMA COMES FROM.....
 
 
 
January 31

Don't Quit!

When things go wrong, as they sometimes will,
when the road you're trudging seems all uphil,
When the funds are low and the debts are high,
and you want to smile but you have to sigh,
When care is pressing you down a bit- rest if you must,
but don't you quit.
 
Life is queer with its twists and turns.
As everyone of us sometimes learns.
And many a fellow turns about when he might have won had
he stuck it out.
Don't give up though the pace seems slow - you may succeed
with another blow.
 
Often the goal is nearer than it seems to a faint and faltering
man;
often the struggler has given up when he might have
captured the victor's cup;
and he learned too late when the night came down,
how close he was to the golden crown.
 
Success is failure turned inside out - the sivlver tint of the clouds of doubt,
and when you never can tell how close you are,
it may be near when it seems afar;
so stick to the fight when you're hardest hit - it's when things
seem worst,
you must not quit.
 
--by Edgar A. Guest
 
sometimes we have to praise those people who can write somethings awaking..
the concept is reasonable and convincible..
and their writings are entertaining and full of humors...
January 22

FAMILY的意义

在网上看到了一篇关于FAMILY的文章,
觉得他写得挺不错的, 值得借鉴一下,
所以就转来这边放在我空间里喽..  ^^
 
                         FAMILY
 
A man came home from work late, tired and irritated,
to find his 5 years old son waiting for him at the door.
 
SON: "Daddy, may i ask you a question?"
 
DAD: "Yeah sure, what is it?" replied the man.
 
SON: "Daddy, how much do you make an hour?"
 
DAD: "That's none of your business. Why do you ask such a thing?" the man said angrily.
 
SON: "I just want to know. Please tell me, how much do you make an hour?"
 
DAD: "If you must know, I make $20 an hour."
 
"Oh", the little boy replied, with his head down.  Looking up, he said, "Daddy, may i please borrow $10?"
 
The father was furious, "If the only reason you asked that is so you can borrow some money to buy a silly toy or some other nonsense, then you march yourself straight to your room and go to bed. Think about why you are being so selfish. I work hard everyday for such this childish behaviour."
 
The little boy quietly went to his room and shut the door.
 
The man sat down and started to get even angrier about the little boy's questions. How dare he ask such questions only to get some money?
 
After about an hour or so, the man had calmed down, and started to think: Maybe there was something he really needed to buy with that $10 and he really didn't ask for money very often.
 
The man went to the door of the little boy's room and opened the door.
 
"Are you asleep, son?"  He asked. "No daddy, I'm awake," replied the boy.
 
"I've been thinking, maybe i was too hard on you earlier." said the man.
 
"It's been a long day and i took out my aggravation on you. Here's the $10 you asked for." The little boy sat straight up, smiling.
 
"Oh, thank you, daddy!" He yelled.
 
Then, reaching under his pillow, he pulled out some crumpled up bills.
 
The man, seeing that the boy already had money, started to get angry again. The little boy slowly counted out his money, then looked up at his father.
 
"Why do you want more money!  If you already have some?" the father grumbled.
 
"Because i didn't have enough, but now i do," the little boy replied.
 
"Daddy, i have $20 now. Can i buy an hour of your time? Please come home early tomorrow.  I would like to have dinner with you."
 
So what is the moral of the story?
 
Don't work too hard... and you know what's the full word of FAMILY?
 
 
FAMILY= ( F )ATHER ( A )ND ( M )OTHER ( I ) ( L )OVE ( Y )OU!
 
                                                                转自<腾讯教育论坛>
June 01

叶子、树、风

叶子、树、风


會叫樹的原因,是因為我擅長畫水彩畫,最愛畫樹,久而久之,
我的畫作右下方索性以一棵樹來代表我。

高中三年交過五個女朋友,有一個女孩子,我很愛她,卻遲遲不敢追,
她沒有美麗的面孔,沒有姣好的身材,沒有撩人的魅力,
一個再平凡不過的女孩子。我喜歡她,真的真的很喜歡她,喜歡她的單純,
她的直率,她的可愛,她的智障,她的脆弱。

不追她的原因,也許是潛意識覺得平凡如她配不上我;
也許是因為怕在一起後,一切的好感都會消失;
也許是怕外人的指指點點傷害了她;
也許是覺得,她會是我的,不用急著為了她而放棄一切。

最後這個原因,讓她陪了我三年,讓她看著我和別的女孩子廝混了三年,
讓她心痛了三年。

她很想當一個好演員,但我卻像一個嚴苛的導演。
我和第二個女朋友在廁所接吻,被她撞見,
她尷尬的笑笑說:「Go on!」然後跑掉,第二天,
她眼睛腫得跟核桃一樣,我故意不去猜想是誰讓她哭成這樣,
嘲笑了她一天,她在所有人都回家後,在教室哭了起來,
她不知道練球回來拿東西的我,看了她一個多小時。
我的第四個女朋友,一直很不喜歡她,有次她們兩個吵了起來,
我知道依她的個性不會去惹事,但我還是護著女朋友,
她被我吼了一下後,愣住,眼淚滑了下來,我無視她的眼淚,
陪女友走出教室,第二天,她依舊嘻嘻哈哈的和我開玩笑,
我知道她很難過,但她不會知道我的心不比她好受。

當我和第五個女朋友分手時,我約她出去玩,玩了一天,我對她說:
「我有事要對妳說。」她說:「真巧,我也有事要對你說。」
「我和她分手了。」「我和他在一起了。」我知道「他」是誰,
他追她也有一陣子了,是個蠻可愛的男孩子,活潑有趣,充滿了熱情,
追她追得滿城風雨。我不能表現自己的心痛,只能笑笑地恭喜她,
但當我回到家,心中的痛楚強烈得令我無法承受,
像有個千斤重的石頭壓在我胸口,我無法呼吸,想大叫卻叫不出來,
眼淚竟然滑了下來,我掩面大哭,多少次,
我也看著她為了那個不願承認的人掩面大哭。

畢業典禮時,我在手機上發現了一封簡訊,這是十天前,
我掩面大哭時傳來的,只是我一直沒有去開過機。

「葉子的離開,是因為風的追求,還是樹的不挽留。」




葉子

高中時,喜歡蒐集葉子,why?因為我覺得,
一片葉子要離開它長期依賴的樹,好勇敢哩!

高中三年,我和一個男孩子很好,不算男女朋友那種好,
是好朋友那種好,但是,在他交第一個女朋友時,
我學會了一種不該有的感覺,吃醋,心中的酸,
不是一顆檸檬可以比喻,那就像是100顆臭酸的檸檬,酸到不行,
他們只在一起兩個月,當他們分手,我還得掩飾自己心中強烈的喜悅,
但是一個月後,他和另一個女孩子在一起。

我喜歡他,也知道他喜歡我,可是,他為什麼總是不追我呢?
明明喜歡彼此,為什麼不行動?每當他交一個女朋友,我就心痛一次,
一次又一次的打擊,讓我不禁懷疑,是我一廂情願嗎?不愛我,
為什麼要對我那麼好?他對我的好,已經不是普通朋友可以做到。
喜歡一個人,好難過,我可以清楚的知道他的喜好,他的習慣,
唯獨他對我的感覺,我猜不透,難道要我這個女孩子去開口嗎?

儘管如此,我還是想在他身邊,關心他,陪他,愛他,
也許算是一種等待的行為,等待他回來愛我,就像每天晚上等他的電話,
等他的簡訊,我知道,就算他再忙,也會撥出一些時間給我。
這樣的等待,陪了我三年,等待是難熬的,是令人想放棄的,
但等到的那一剎那,讓人第二天會繼續等下去。
這樣的煎熬,這樣的痛苦,這樣的幸福,這樣的矛盾,陪了我三年。

直到三年級下學期,高二一個學弟喜歡上我,每天的熱情追求,
令我從一開始的拒絕,漸漸願意挪出我心房的一些位置給他。
他像一陣溫柔而持久的風,撩撥我這片搖搖欲墜的葉子,到最後,
我發現我已經不想只留一點點的位置給這陣風,我知道這陣風,
會帶我這片傷痕累累的葉子,到更幸福的地方。

於是我離開了樹,樹只是笑笑,沒有挽留。

「葉子的離開,是因為風的追求,還是樹的不挽留。」






因為我喜歡的女孩子叫葉子,因為她有一棵令她依戀的樹,
所以我要當一陣風,一陣呵護她的風。

第一次看見她,是高二我轉來一個月後的事,個子小小的她坐在球場旁,
一雙眼凝視著同和我在球場的學長,每天的社團時間,她總會坐在那裡,
一個人,和朋友,她的眼光依舊凝視著他,當他和女孩子打打鬧鬧,
她的眼中有淚,當他看向她,她的眼中有笑。看她成了我的習慣,
就像她愛看他。

有一天她沒來,我心中沒來由的焦慮與不安,我無法解釋那種感覺,
除了不安,還是不安,而且那學長竟然也不在。我衝去他們教室,
躲在外面,看著學長罵她,她的眼淚,他的離去。

第二天,她依舊坐在場邊,看著他,我走過去,對她笑一笑,
拿了張紙條給她,她先是驚訝的看著我,然後笑笑地收下。

隔天,她拿著紙條出現在我面前,然後離開。

「葉子的心太沉重,風吹不動。」

「不是葉子的心太沉重,是葉子根本就不想離開樹。」

我回給她這段話後,她漸漸會和我說話,收我的禮物,接我的電話。

我知道她喜歡的不是我,但我還是有毅力一定要讓她喜歡上我,
四個月內我告白了不下20次,每一次她都轉移話題,但我還是不會放棄,
我決定要的人,我就一定會給它追過來!

一直到不知道第幾次的告白,出了口,雖然知道她一定會又說到別的事,
但還是有一絲絲希望她的答應,沒想到她都不說話,「妳在幹嘛?怎麼不說
話?」
我對著話筒說。

「我在點頭。」 「啊?」我不敢相信自己的耳朵。
「我在點頭!」她大聲叫。

我甩掉電話,匆匆披上一件衣服,上了機車,衝去她們家按門鈴,
當她開門的那一剎那,緊緊抱住她。

「葉子的離開,是因為風的追求,還是樹的不挽留。」

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